Some things just aren't for me...

Shellfish, ass holes, extreme heat, mayonnaise, and a myriad of other food items, along with doing jail time, are just a few of the things that are simply not for me.

This blog is dedicated to people who feel that their authority takes precedence over common sense, and right and wrong.

I work in a field, that if caught in the wrong situation, with the wrong people, at the wrong time, it could result in my incarceration, and if you know me, you've often heard me say, "I will not do well in Jail" I simply will not. It can't happen.

So today, someone found themselves in the wrong situation, at the wrong time, BUT with the right person, that person being yours truly. I did not feel comfortable in the position, and so I voiced my opinion, as I would do in any uncomfortable situation. Voicing my opinion, was taken to mean that I'm undermining authority and stepping outside my boundaries...BITCH..my boundaries will not be confined to Her Majesty's Prison, so when you're ready to come correctly, you do that. Overstepping my boundaries? Pardon me? I have the right to refuse ANY and ALL of your requests IF I feel a certain level of discomfort with any of them.

Why do people feel that because they have a title before or after their name they can take advantage of those "below" them? Why is it that they feel this title makes them the last shit on earth, the kind that doesn't have an odor, when in fact, it's more pungent than any I've ever had a whiff of myself? Furthermore, I'm entirely uncertain as to why this person would think to even TRY and assume that I would do some foolishness like this, must've forgotten! I'm not like the rest, that needs not be forgotten!

Anyway, I digress. All things for a reason right? God makes no mistakes, so I know at the end of the day, all will be well.

P.S. It's good to be back! Pardon my neglect..but I'm back now, and ready to start anew..

This has been Collegeguy.

I feel good.

So over the past few days, I've been doing some soul searching, trying to understand why I do what I do, and if I'm doing it for the right reasons. I've come to the conclusion that I've been put here to do special things for people, to be an encouragement to others, all the while lifting up the name of God. In order to do that, I realized I had to be true to myself, and to the ones I love, and love me back. And so I did.

There's no feeling like acceptance from your loved ones, and those I call friends prove that to me everyday. Especially recently. I revealed a "me" that most of them had no idea about, and now they do, and it's as though nothing ever happened, not in the sense that they're ignoring that aspect of me, rather, they're simply not letting it get in the way of our friendship and growth.

To that end I feel good. To have the love and support of loved ones is a great feeling.

At the same time, even if our loved ones don't support every decision we make in our lives, whether or not it affects them directly, we must always remain true to ourselves, keeping in mind that no one can love you better than you. True self love is irreplacable. Love yourself, and be true to yourself lovies, that's the moral for today's story.

This has been Collegeguy.

It seems like forever...

Hey everyone, please forgive me for my loooong absence. So much has been going on in the past few weeks, and I've ended up neglecting some of my regular activities, for example my blog. But I'm back now, and I hope that I can continue to give you quality and entertaining tid bits to read. Looking forward to it.

This has been Collegeguy.